10 Best Car Sex Positions
Best Car Sex Positions. You’re about to get it on with bae in your ol’ reliable bed, when all of a sudden, you remember you have a perfectly good, and more exciting, option in your garage—your car. After all, what’s hotter than fogging up the windows while getting freaky in the backseat?
Whether the imagined scenario makes you nostalgic for your high school sweetheart or horny AF from thinking about Jack and Rose in that epic Titanic scene, I think everyone can agree that car sex can really, ahem, rev up your engine.
For one, you can do it just about anywhere. Literally. It’s a car, which means you can drive to wherever your wanderlust (emphasis on lust) takes you.
Here are the 10 Best Car Sex Positions and their benefits
1. Cargirl
Get it? This take on the classic cowgirl sex position is your go-to move for car sex. Why? It’s easy to hop on and off your partner in a pinch, you get tons of clitoral stimulation thanks to the angle of their penis or strap-on, and you can push your body up against them to go as deep as you like.
How to do it: With your partner sitting in the driver or passenger seat, climb on top and straddle them. Pro tip: To give both of you more wiggle room, recline the seat as far back as you can, says Oriowo. You’ll especially want to recline the seat back if you’re engaging in anal play, so your partner can have easy access to your tush (just don’t forget the lube).
2. Reverse Cargirl
This sex position is just like cargirl, only with your back and butt facing your partner so they get allll the views (and you get a nice one of the parking lot). JK: This position is really great for hitting the G-spot and P-spot—and controlling the depth and pace of your partner’s thrusts, since you can lean on the glove compartment for leverage.
How to do it: Have your partner sit in the driver or passenger seat (or backseat, if you want), and straddle them facing away. Brace the window or glove compartment for stability as you grind. When you grind, instead of doing an up and down motion, which can be difficult in a low ceiling car, try rocking back and forth, says Oriowo: “This will help engage the clitoris, as well as the labia, giving you a full sexual experience.”
If penetration is not the goal, reverse cargirl also allows for easy access to the clit or penis and breasts if the seated partner wants to turn on the receiving partner through some hand action. Who says that foreplay can’t be the main event?
3. Backseat Doggy
Straight-up missionary can be tough to do in the car, since chances are, neither of you will be able to extend your legs fully. Doggy style, on the other hand, is perfect: You get deep penetration and G- and P-spot stimulation, your partner gets to take you from behind while bending their torso over yours, and you both get easy access to your clitoris or penis. Win-win.
How to do it: Climb into the backseat, then get on all fours. Have your partner kneel behind you and enter, draping their upper body over yours. If you’re feeling a bit more risqué (and also want more room), the partner being penetrated can have their butt hanging outside of the car door, while the penetrating partner takes them from behind while standing outside of the vehicle, says Oriowo. While one of you isn’t technically in the car, it still counts as car sex.
4. Carboy
If you’re tired, go ahead and let your partner take the driver seat…for the sexing, too. In this position, you get to lie down (with bent legs…because, space) while they sit on top of you.
How to do it: Get in the backseat and lie on your back with bent knees while your partner straddles you. They then insert their penis or strap-on through the tight opening created by your semi-closed legs, increasing the intensity of penetration. If both partners have vaginas, this position will also take your scissoring game to the next level.
5. The Seashell
One way to take up less space in the car? Fold your body in half (or the closest thing to it). The seashell is a clutch car sex position for this very reason—and the fact that you can have them “ride high,” rubbing their pubic bone against your clit or penis, or “ride low,” directly stimulating your G- or P-spot with the head of their penis or strap-on, is a win-win.
How to do it: In the backseat, lie on your back with your legs raised all the way up and your ankles as close to your shoulders and head as possible. Then have them enter you from a missionary position, and enjoy the magic.
6. The Om
Okay, so, disclaimer: The Om is a tantric sex move, which involves more slow rocking than hard pounding. But it’s kinda romantic, if that’s your thing. (If it is, Jack and Rose would be proud.)
How to do it: Have your partner sit cross-legged (yoga-/pretzel-style) on the car seat, then sit in their lap facing them. Wrap your legs around them and hug each other for support.
7. Reverse Scoop
This lying-down position is great for backseats, since your bodies are basically intertwined with each other and your legs are bent, unlike in missionary. The bonus of lying down? No chance of banging your head on the car ceiling. (That’s the worst.) The reverse scoop is one of the more appropriate positions for a car because it gives you a little bit more room to work with, says Oriowo.
How to do it: Climb into the backseat, then lie down and turn onto your sides to face each other. Scooch toward each other until they can enter you, and use your arms and various parts of the car, like the (locked!) door handle, to support you.
8. Spider
Want to crank up the kink on your own car sex scene? The spider is a must if you’re looking to make things a little more hardcore. The position creates intense penetration and clitoral stimulation while letting you and your partner get a full look at each other’s bodies—something that most car sex positions can’t do.
How to do it: Both of you sit on the backseat with legs toward each other, arms back to support yourselves. Now, move together and onto their penis or strap-on. Your hips will be between their spread legs, your knees bent, and feet outside of their hips and flat on the seat. Rock back and forth. It’s the only time you’ll be happy to see a spider in the car.
9. Rear Seat
Okay, it’s definitely time you tried the rear seat position if you haven’t given it a go quite yet. It’s one of the most accessible sex positions out there, no matter what kind of genitals you have. You and your partner can take turns leaning against the door while the other gets on their knees.
How to do it: Need a play-by-play? Gotcha. “One of you can lean your head and shoulders against the door in a semi-propped up position, while the other can be on their knees and be in a position to finger you, use a sex toy, or engage in penetrative sex,” says Janet Brito, PhD, a licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii. While on their knees, your partner can also play with your nipples, kiss you, and give you oral sex. “Since you have seats and doors to lean on or push against, this position is versatile, as it allows you to spread your legs or adjust to an angle you prefer.”
10. Bullseye
If you’re enjoying the backseat, stay there! Another way to tackle this area of the car is by trying out new ways to give oral, or as Brito calls it, the bullseye. (Get it? The clitoris is the bullseye, hah.) TL;DR: This position takes face-sitting to a whole new level, so your clit is going to be obsessed.
How to do it: “Gently sit on your partner’s face in an angle where your clitoris rests on their lips,” Brito says. “You can hold on to the seat for support.” By using the seat for balance, you can grind all over your partner’s mouth and move your hips every which way. For any penis-owners, the bullseye also takes a regular BJ to a whole other level.
P.S. Don’t overlook the art of mutual masturbation. You can even make it a game if you’re feeling kinky. Have your partner sit in the front seat, while you stay in the back, explains Oriowo. Your partner sitting in the front isn’t allowed to look at you, they can only hear the moans you elicit from yourself and imagine having sex with you. So while you’re having a great time, your S.O. can only sneak peeks through the rearview mirror, while getting all hot and bothered. À la Paris Hilton, “That’s hot.”
Benefits Of Car Sex
Other than being extremely steamy (both literally and figuratively), there are plenty of other benefits to car sex. For one, it’s a change of scenery. The bed might be comfortable and reliable, but sometimes you crave a more exciting environment. And while your car might be familiar to you (let’s be honest, you probably use it multiple times a day to get around or go to work), using it in a different way can still create a sense of excitement.
“Even if you choose to have sex in your garage, you’re still introducing a new element to your sex life and pairing something mundane with something sexual,” she explains. Plus, next time you get in your car, you’ll be reminded of the frisky time you had in the backseat. The drive to work or Target will never be boring ever again!
Another benefit of car sex is that if you and your S.O. are feeling stagnant, it’s a great way to recharge your sex life and lean into some of those sexual fantasies you might have. And because you can’t exactly have an hours-long lovemaking sesh—since, ya know, other people are likely to come around at some point, and your legs will (I repeat, will) start cramping—you’ll feel a natural sense of urgency. Those need-you-now vibes, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship, make for some seriously steamy sex and bonding afterward.
