How To Make A Man Cry In Bed
How To Make A Man Cry In Bed. Don’t you just love making your man cry in bed? And knowing they can’t wait to be with you again is something else, too. A woman who masters the art of making a guy sexually addicted to her wields a lot of power. It can take a little time to perfect the art; however, which is why we’ve written this guide. And following the advice here might very well turn your sexual pleasure up to 11, too!
The trick to making a guy addicted to you, whether he’s your boyfriend or husband or a fuck buddy.
But enough of the idle chatter. Here are 21 surefire ways that will teach you how to make a man cry in bed…
1. Condition Him to Crave You
Did you know that you can make a guy’s mind associate certain things with sex even if he’s not aware that it’s happening? It’s all due to conditioning. If you wear a certain scent or lipstick every time you have sex, his brain will register “sex” when he smells or sees it. You can see that this is a powerful tool you can use to your advantage.
Give it a try on your own. Do, wear, or say something right before sex for a few weeks. you may notice that eventually doing that thing will get him thinking about you sexually and maybe even make him hard! You can use this trick when you want to make him horny.
Just be careful not to accidentally use the trigger when around other people or use the same perfume that his sister wears!
2. Surprise Him with Sex
You might want to sit down for this one because it’s kind of a bombshell: guys like sex.
Like, a lot.
Remember that whole “random act of kindness” thing? This is one of the best ways to go about it, hands down. Men are more than willing to ask for sex, but one of the hottest things you can do is initiate it.
Guys love feeling wanted too! Yet, they often have to make the first move.
It could be because of gender norms that we learn in our culture. And the fact that roughly 30% of women have responsive desire while many men have spontaneous desire doesn’t help. So you may have to get yourself in the mood first if you want to surprise him with sex.
Find out how to get horny.
So open the door without clothes on, run your hands across his pants when he’s playing a video game, or kiss him deeply. Tell him how much you want him and cannot resist him, even if you’re got messy hair and morning breath! Sometimes the key to getting him to desire you is to remind him how sexy you find him!
Remember, it can be ultra-sexy if you initiate in the car or a semi-public place when he’s least expecting it or when the curtains are open and not just at home and in the bedroom.
3. Ride Him With Confidence
If you’ve got the confidence to get on top and ride him skillfully, you’re already leaps and bounds above any woman who’s a little too self-conscious, shy, or inexperienced. And if you use him for your own pleasure, it can make him desire you even more!
Not quite as confident as you could be? Check out these 4 tips to ride your man with confidence and this guide to feeling super confident when you’re on top.
4. Talk Dirty to Him
One of the best “tricks” in the making him addicted toolbox is talking dirty to your man.
Talking dirty to him can feel a bit awkward if you’re never done it before…Fortunately, we’ve got a few tools to help you make a guy addicted by talking dirty to him…
You can try talking dirty in the bedroom using some of these examples, but you can also do it over the phone, which is a great way to stay in touch when you or he is far from home. These phone sex tips will help a lot.
5. Do Kegel Exercises
Kegel exercises work out the muscles that hold your uterus, vagina, and surrounding organs in place. You can squeeze these muscles around your partner’s dick when he’s inside you making your vagina feel tighter, which can even make him cum right then…perfect for making your man cry in bed.
6. Try New Things in the Bedroom
Want to know how to make a man addicted to you in the bedroom? Easy: branch out. Guys like to experiment, and while girls usually do too, society sometimes may make you hold back a little bit more than you want to. We say,
Screw society.
Try New Positions – Your guy likes you, probably loves you, and you don’t need to be ashamed or afraid of suggesting something new to try in the bedroom. An easy way to start is by trying some new sex positions.
There are positions for oral and some positions that work great for anal sex, too. Keep in mind that some positions give him a great view of your body.
Toys & Games – You can also add toys, costumes or lingerie, or something kinky. If you’re not sure what you want to try, sex games like these or sex dice can give you ideas and switch things up.
Prostate Play – For men, in particular, prostate play can be a deep desire. Yet, society often makes them feel ashamed for wanting to try this because it “might be gay” to experiment with backdoor play. Of course, no activity done between you and your man can ever be gay!
7. Encourage Him to Open Up Sexually
If you provide a space where he can talk about his kinks and fetishes, it’ll make him crazy for you! This is especially true if he didn’t feel like he could open up to other partners in the past or that he was judged for doing so.
You can make this safe space by asking him if there’s anything he’d like to do sexually. Or you can start a conversation about your own fantasies or sexual bucket list. Hopefully, being vulnerable will encourage him to do the same.
It’s important for you not to judge him in any way even if he suggests activities that aren’t exactly your cup of tea. But if you’re willing to try something new, you might find ways to bring sex to the next level and get him hooked on you sexually.
8. Try Dominant or Submissive Roles
Imagine this: a guy is sexually obsessed with you, and you both know it.
He craves you sexually.
All the power is in your hands.
So why not try actual power play and dominate him in the bedroom? You can hand out punishments and rewards and control his orgasms.
You can hold or tie him down, use blindfolds, spank him, and use all manner of toys.
This type of roleplay is perfect for adding dirty talk, too! You can talk about how he’s sexually addicted to you and encourage him to agree. Get him to list the things he loves about your body and sexual talents or the things he would do just to be with you. We guarantee it’ll make sex better for both of you.
On the flip side, you can try submitting to him sexually. What better way to keep him sexually obsessed than by catering to his needs and letting him feel powerful in the bedroom?
The key is to experiment with dominating your man and being submissive for him and figure this out for yourself.
9. Edge Him
If you were a little confused about what I meant by “control his orgasms” in my previous point; don’t worry. Orgasm control is all about letting a guy cum only when and how you want him to. It’s a powerful tool to have when learning how to make a man shake in bed with pleasure. Toys exist to prevent erection and orgasm, or you can ruin his orgasm.
You can also try making him orgasm on command. The tip about sexual conditioning helps with that.
But an especially important sex trick to keep him interested in edging. Edging is the practice of bringing yourself or someone else close to orgasm and backing off. You repeat this several times before finally letting him cum. Why? It makes that final orgasm so intense after all that stimulation and buildup of anticipation!
10. Make Him a Little Jealous
A little jealousy never hurt anyone (although, a lot can certainly be a red flag). No one is advocating that you disappear for a night or hold hands with his best friend, but a small reminder here and there that he wants you to be his and his alone can be good for your relationship.
A touch of flirtation with a passing stranger, a long gaze with the waiter, drawing heads in a pretty dress … these are all perfect ways to remind your guy that you’re desirable and that he’s lucky to have you. And if you’re not in a relationship, it might not hurt to let him know if you’re seeing other people.. or that others want to date you.
Just don’t make him so jealous that it causes a problem.
