Master The Art Of Fingering
Master The Art Of Fingering. Fingering can be really pleasurable for a woman and could lead to her orgasm—when done well. It can be your side dish (for penetrative sex) or the main dish.
So, I’ll lay down some tips for you.
Do Some Housekeeping
First off, trim your nails. It could be painful for your girl when you’re poking around her vag with long, sharp nails like a wild boar.
And don’t forget to wash your hands. The vulva is very sensitive to bacteria, and your hands can easily accumulate that throughout the day. So keep your hands off her vulva before you wash it.
Warm Up With Foreplay
Make sure to only put in your finger when she’s wet and ready. Doing so when she’s dry could be uncomfortable for her and might even ruin her mood. You may also use lube to make it more pleasurable for her.
Get To Know Her Clitoris
The clitoris is a little pleasure nub that gets swollen when she’s aroused. It’s home to many nerve endings, so it can be very pleasurable for her when you stimulate it.
Many women orgasm from clitoral stimulation more than anything else. At the same time, it’s VERY sensitive, so be careful not to overstimulate it.
Stimulate The G-Spot
Slowly insert one finger into her vaginal opening, preferably your index finger. Then, curl your finger in a come-hither motion with your palm facing up.
Explore around two to three inches deep in her vaginal wall. If she’s aroused, you can feel a ridged or wrinkly spot. That’s the G-spot.
Find the rhythm, speed, and pressure that feels great to your partner. Some techniques are tapping this area with your finger pad, going in circular motions, or thrusting your finger in and out.
You may also insert a second finger if she’s into it.
Always Check With Your Partner
Don’t just do what you think is good. Every woman finds different things pleasurable. Always check in with her and gather her feedback. STOP when she pushes your hands away.
If she’s near her climax, don’t switch! Many make the mistake of doing something else when they see their girl nearing orgasm. Keep doing what you’re doing until she reaches her big O.
